Monday, May 16, 2016

HOW TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON: BECOME MORE SELFLESS



I ran across a great story the other day and thought I'd share it. Here's the short version:

In Soul Food, Jack Kornfield and Christina Feldman tell the story of an Illinois family whose young daughter became ill and was diagnosed with a life-threatening blood disease.

A search went out for a compatible donor but, as she had a rare blood type, none could be found. Then it was discovered that her 6-year-old brother shared her blood type. The boy’s mother and doctor sat down with him to ask if he was willing to donate blood to save his sister’s life.

To their surprise, he didn’t answer right away. He needed some time to think about it. After a few days, he came back to his mother and announced he would do it.

As Kornfield and Feldman write:

The following day the doctor brought both children to his clinic and placed them on cots next to each other. He wanted them to see how one was helping the other.

First he drew a half pint of blood from the young boy’s arm. Then he moved it over to his sister’s cot and inserted the needle so her brother could see the effect.

In a few minutes color began to pour back into her cheeks.

Then the boy motioned for the doctor to come over. He wanted to ask a question, very quietly.

"Will I start to die right away?" he asked.

You see, when he had been asked to donate his blood to save his sister’s life, his 6-year old mind understood the process literally. He thought he was trading his life for his sister’s.

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The New Testament tells us it is more blessed to give than to receive. But even if you don't subscribe to Christianity, the wisdom of sages throughout history have said the same thing.

Taoism suggests we extend our help without seeking reward. Buddha said that contentment is found in a generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion.

Hope you liked this little story. Give me a call if I can help you in any way.


On your Team,

Ken
951-760-3833
KenAHall@gmail.com


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